HOW TO CHOOSE A PARTNER WISELY
One of the most important things that we can do when we are on the path of conscious evolution through relational alchemy is to choose our partners wisely.
In order to step into the next evolution of human partnership, specific qualities of character are required: courageousness, grit, empathy, determination and commitment, to name a few.
This is not a path for the weak willed - the people who are trailblazers in this area do not operate in the status quo and are fueled by a higher mission far beyond ego and personal preferences.
Those of us that hold the template of the new paradigm of relationships are dangerous to the powers that be because this is a lightning path to awakening and liberation. This is not necessarily a secret to those of us who study esoteric material. The wisdom is there if you want to dive in.
The use of conscious relationship principles is for the direct purpose of making the unconscious conscious. It's shadow work done in partnership.
Add in the conscious knowledge and practice of masculine/feminine energetic balance, and this is the path of divine union, the sacred marriage of heaven on earth that is our birthright.
Few understand what this really means, and we must be careful with popular polarity teachings taking us down an inverted path.
If you want to be able to hold the higher levels of conscious relationships and divine union with a partner, you must start with a strong foundation, which includes choosing a partner wisely from the absolute start.
It wasn’t until I wrote How to Choose a Partner Wisely that I realized how dire this skill of being able to discern sound character really is.
As I read my own guide covering the basics of healthy character - including twenty qualities that are powerful indicators of trustworthiness - I found myself shrinking and thinking that these characteristics may be too much to ask of any one person.
Then I realized that insidious knee jerk reaction to lower the bar. What an illustration of our collective programming to settle for scraps. When did our world become one where asking for integrity, commitment and self-discipline is “too much”?
It reminds me of when I told someone that I had high standards. She wisely said, “No. You just have standards.”
Meaning that what we think is too much these days is just basic relational skills and indicators of being a good person.
How lost we have become…
The work I am here for cannot be half assed. This is something that needs to be done with a high level of integrity with a trustworthy partner who is in it for the long haul.
The erosion of strong moral character is absolutely decimating men and women who truly embody the fabric required for the next evolution of relationships, and the pool of acceptable potential partners is shrinking by the day.
I predict this will get worse with the rise of AI and the next level of pornography, amplifying the sexual misery program exponentially.
And this isn’t even getting into the whole war on love, sex, and relationships.
If this concerns you, then you need to prioritize relationships and connecting with your people now. Our only hope to carry this work forward in a true (non-distorted) way is to come together in community and begin to live this day to day so it can be passed on to the next generation.
My work is not for popular culture. I am dialed in to a devotion to truth and high caliber relationships above all else.
To be honest, my work is triggering for many, because it shines a light on all of the things they would rather not deal with.
I remember making a basic program of teachings for women that seemed very foundational to me, not confronting at all in my opinion. But even this level of work triggered some women. It was those that had trouble with even surface level self-responsibility and inner work that continue to struggle. They are mesmerized by those offering quick fixes and easy roads. This is not it.
Only those who are willing to take personal responsibility to clean their house first have a chance with this path. And it's not popular. It requires putting your ego to the side and doing The Great Work.
I have never been part of the “in” crowd for a reason, I’ve recognized sheep being led since I was very young and have an extraordinarily low level of trust for people who are in the limelight - UNLESS I can feel the embodiment of true wisdom on an energetic level.
The grief that I feel in my heart is heavy when I look at the collective state of affairs of men and women, rampant moral relativism and the total inversion of the qualities of character, beliefs, and overall fortitude required to cross the threshold onto this higher timeline.
The potential of what is possible in relationships is so clear to me, and it kills me that we are missing our chance to step in and anchor this reality now.
What I am finding after years of trying to support people towards higher states of love and relationships is that that quality of character required to do the work to actually live and embody this is quite rare.
This a truth that has been pointed to over the past few years in the circles I spend time in with regards to the numbers problem. If you have a room of 100 people, there may be 1 or 2 that are awake enough to actually know what I am even talking about. And that may even be a generous number.
For those of us who are clued in, it can be a lonely road, and the heartbreaking thing is that there ARE people ready to co-create these types of high caliber relationships now, but they cannot find partners. I work with them everyday - they are my clients.
But the discipline required to stay true to your values and not compromise to a lower bar out of loneliness is too much for many people, even those with good intentions.
If you can relate to this, keep your head up and continue on. Do not give up. On some level, it is a numbers game. But on another level, those of us who have this as our destiny mission will be supported and need to trust God’s will.
If you are looking for a partner, be very targeted with where/who you are choosing to be around. Do not waste time in consensus reality domains. And spend time reading the skills required on How to Choose a Partner Wisely so that you can become a master at discerning people's character.
This will save you from starting to build with somebody only to learn that they do not have what it takes to do this kind of work. We’re wasting time, and we can’t afford to do that anymore. We are in the final hour.
If you want to connect, let’s talk face to face. I am here for those who sincerely want to do the work. If you are here, then I trust you do. Despite this path being challenging at times, it is worth every minute. Once you open the door to what is possible in relationships, you can’t go back. And we need more people who can’t go back - because humanity is literally at stake and we need to make it through.