RAISE THE BAR
There is so much mediocrity all around us. It's as if we're in this dark slumber and have learned to settle for scraps. This is not normal. Whether it's in relationships, or in general, we've set the bar pretty low in almost all areas of life - health, intimacy, work, you name it.
I was reflecting on how it appears as if I have high standards. A drive for excellence. People are sometimes triggered by that. They think I'm too much. Too intense. But what if it's not necessarily that at all, but simply a noticing that we're living in a world full of shit?
I have SO MUCH FAITH in humanity. It is not that we are broken. It's that we have been brainwashed - literally - into mediocre mindsets.
I'll never forget the conversation I had with a friend when I told her I have high standards. She told me, "NO. You just have standards."
Meaning, what we now label "high standards" are just simply basic human expectations of each other.
I cannot tell you how many people who have come to me who are settling for mediocrity in one or more areas of their lives. And I am not coming from a place of preaching at you with judgment. I was in a mediocre relationship for almost 20 years. The universe smacked me hard across the face and forced me to wake up to that fact, and it took every ounce of my courage to leave that situation. So you must know that my work is based in deeply knowing, and working from a place of service to help others do the same.
My work is powerful. I love my clients so deeply + show them the truth of their soul with so much love. Sometimes this includes cutting through the bullshit - but if you know me, if you've worked with me, you can feel my heart deeply. I do this work for you. For humanity.
I feel that we are on the edge of a major wake up call here. It's already happening. But there's still much more to be done. Keep pushing. Do not settle for anything less than the life you know you truly deserve. I'll back you up 100%.
Let me know your thoughts. Reach out for support. I am here.