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Stefna Ogle's avatar

This entire article is challenging me in deep ways especially this part "Any ego based desires around wanting a conscious relationship NOW need to be checked and cleared. We trust divine timing and continue to deepen into our spiritual and psychological work in preparation." Thank you so much for writing this, I feel challenged and inspired and I feel a deep sense of faith and peace fill me too. 🙏

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Leigh-Anne LoPinto's avatar

Thanks Stefna, I so appreciate your comment. My writing definitely has that challenger frequency sometimes! (Have you seen that book by Erwin McMannus called the 7 Frequencies of Communication? I have Challenger, Healer, Seer...it's a really cool one.) This is such a big conversation. I think the key here is 'ego-based desires' vs soul-level. If you truly know you're ready in your heart and soul, that is different. I see a lot of women longing for a 'conscious relationship' or 'divine union' in a romantic way and yet they have not done any inner work at all. They expect this out of a partner, but don't bring it to the table themselves. Not only will it not happen like that, but it's also not reciprocal and is usually entitlement. We can trust that the evolutionary forces are working for us, to guide us down this path in the exact way we need. Everyone is at different stages of their development and it's all perfect.

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Stefna Ogle's avatar

You write so beautifully! And your continuous reminder of faith is very humbling, thank for that! The books sounds awesome, I will check it out thanks! ☺️

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Stefna Ogle's avatar

I can be very pushy! So I must also have that challenger energy. But I have seen how it can also sometimes stem from a place of control. Letting go and trusting the divine's perfect work in everyone is definitely a huge task for me 🙏

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Leigh-Anne LoPinto's avatar

Yes, sometimes it can be! The Challenger frequency is actually the transmuted 'persecutor' position on the drama triangle, which I was just teaching to one of my groups last week...each position has a higher expression and it's exciting to know that we can transcend the drama triangle by learning about this. The lower expression of it does have to do with control, domination, power-over others. The higher expression is a truth teller who provides constructive criticism vs tearing someone down.

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Stefna Ogle's avatar

That makes so much sense to me! I can see how I have misused this energy in relationships. I am SO looking forward to connecting with you; I'm already learning so much!

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Leigh-Anne LoPinto's avatar

Looking forward to it too!

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